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Here is a mistake that probably a lot of guys make. I know I have and it has cost me many times.

DO NOT pressure your wife/gf ever about...]]>
Here is a mistake that probably a lot of guys make. I know I have and it has cost me many times.

DO NOT pressure your wife/gf ever about putting on a mask.

I've made the mistake of going too fast and too soon and it has caused fights and a lot of making up.

Case in point. I have a Kerry mask which I love and of course would love to see my wife in it. However, some of the reasons I love it is the same reasons my wife hates it. I had got her to the point where she had agreed to wear any mask I want so I grabbed my mask from Kerry and started putting it on her but she started panicking and freaking out.

I already knew that she didn't like tight things on her face and this mask is pretty tight as it's a zipper back one.

Result.. no masked sex, no mask on my girlfriend that day or for a long time.

Make sure it's a mask she is comfortable with and if she's willing to try, go at her pace. Don't just rush to put it on her.]]> http://dollspride.com/maskslave/blog/masking-with-your-wife-the-number-1-don-t/ Fri, 27 Apr 2012 08:25:30 +0000 maskslave http://dollspride.com/maskslave/blog/masking-with-your-significant-other-intro/
I have a mask fetish. I've had it since I was a child but never knew it...]]>
I have a mask fetish. I've had it since I was a child but never knew it was sexual until my 20's when I discovered Maskon.com.

I tried to bring it up with friends but always felt like a freak. In fact, I still feel like a freak but I'm more comfortable about it now. I did tell one of my online friends and she was very understanding. I almost told one of my real life close female friends but chickened out.

This will be the first of my blogs where I talk about how I was able to explore my fetish with my girlfriend (now my wife) and how I've gotten to do way more things related to my fetish with my very vanilla wife than I ever thought possible.

For those who think they will never find someone to share their fetish with, I'm not gonna lie, I think I'm very lucky. My wife isn't some hard core fetishist and she isn't gonna join me on this site, but I have been able to have amazing experiences with her in all sorts of masks, hoods, gasmasks, female mask etc.

To give some people hope, she had told me before that she would "never" wear a gasmask under any circumstances and now she'll wear a gasmask sometimes while chopping onions just to turn me on.

Along the way, I'll tell you some of the dumbest mistakes I've made with her and some of my successes and hopefully help someone along the way.

Ultimately I'd like to write some fiction that is inspired by my real life experiences.]]> http://dollspride.com/maskslave/blog/masking-with-your-significant-other-intro/ Wed, 25 Apr 2012 06:24:42 +0000 maskslave http://dollspride.com/Molly_Delaney/blog/how-does-it-feel/
Wearing the femskin, a whole one, was crazy exciting the first time. It's hard to get into, especially as my bodysuit has wide hips and a big butt. That all has to squeeze through the neck opening. But once in--- ohhh! There are problems that, if I enumerated them, would sound kind of negative. Some can be fixed by the user, and you are seeing several. Some of it is just getting experience, or yes, buying more stuff. My top has the arm and neck openings scissors-trimmed larger and feathered. I would modify the bottom too. I'm not into enclosure, but femskin is one hell of a seduction.

Also reserved for special nude occasions. In my usual body rig, adding a realistic mask to its comfortable nice shape and feel, with vagina, was quite ecstatic going in the first months, starting just a year ago. Looking close enough to GG in the mirror, compulsively going out. Five or six days a week at first. My past outdoor CD experience was only a few times in 1991 and 1993, at night, avoiding contact. Now is still on the edge, but hey, flying.

So in two words: fetishistic ecstasy. My bodysuit uses silicone for butt and thigh mass. It feels realistic, has true weight, requiring shoulder straps for support. Adding a full function v-string: peeing, penetrable vagina, rear opening, is tedious. But wonderful to play in. Masturbating as a girl (penis snugged down into the interior plumbing)is incredible, requires much concentration, and climaxes very intensely.
Sex toys, the garnish, don't count do they? So I'm still a 3-way virgin.

This all is an attempt to delve deep into girlness. No I don't want to become a woman actually. It's a visual, tactile, mind move to explore a wonderful internal male-female interface. Joy similar to lovemaking with a woman. The sticking point, on ones own, there is no actual independent "other."

That joy, probably a majority of us dolls found it, stealthily out of a drawer, before we were old enough to have any kind of girlfriend. Those first few times I recall as the sweetest of my life. Or perhaps you came to masks and disguises first? As dolls we keep going back to that discovered well, descend ever deeper.

My masking year 1 did keep moving. Going out got easier, more daring, more central than bedroom play. After the summer hiatus, September, Art Museum adventure, not even planned, and that whole week were a breakthrough. Now it's like I've been a psychoanalytic patient treated successfully! Hoping it's just temporary surfeit but presently feeling cured of compulsive crossdressing. Early October was nice, out enjoying fall, a kinky vacation. Halloween felt a tad obligatory.

I have to add, having my girlfriend so supportive, she is a calm uncritical voice. Hung on as I asked her to, when I was definitely going overboard.

She also continually ups her own bedroom game. Wow. Past vanilla, chocolate, now this weekend my birthday, she's got some 11-11-11 kink event cooked up. Signing on at alt.com is set aside. That was close. Molly was ready. Prowling to get "spread legged and fucked", aside from a scary leap off the edge, just not compatible with Marsha, too much genuinely good otherness to toss. Romance is good. In the longer run, who knows? Dressing up is going to wait on the urge to return. Molly is here all the time. The 4x6 prints are always at hand.

I should mention my latex pussy does feel really good to insert yourself into. You bet I tried it! Intending to look natural, the Halloween pictures are of course somewhat staged, versus an in-person appearance. The rear wasn't open. Extra tights. V-string quite tight. Waist joint hidden. Doll-in-hand would take different primping, not even fully worked out. Dollspride, this place to exhibit our fantasy selves and meet likeminded souls, turned out to be a means of life change, realization for my female self. My fantasy life, your fantasies?

To clarify something, I'm straight, as a person. Lust after females. In addition, Molly, in the throes has edged up to her own straightness. A shy first date, her go-to, if challenging fantasy. Part of being real. Unabashed girl doll party is still good too for sure! What's under your skirt?

About how it feels to 'look that good'? If you asked it of a GG intending to compliment, an answer wouldn't be about feeling herself up, or masturbating. She'd smile, blush, be complimented. Perhaps tell you her boyfriend appreciates it. Behind coyness think other things. As Molly I "feel" it now more like that, from outside, than the tactile inside. Compliments are ambrosia, we all know. It's pictures I have to use myslf, for reflective view, to impress that appearance into my mind. I never become less astonished that that's me.

That any viewer might wish to be my boyfriend, ahhh. Ravish? Well, I'm not slutting up my outdoors wholesome girl rep for nothing. Molly is a real enough person, caught in lonely limbo, dreaming of...? Pictures prove it to me. The naughty ones posted? A come-on, an explicit invitation to fantasize with and about me. It's permitted. Comments venturing there, thank you. Toys are unsatisfactory unfeeling stand-ins for what I really imagine. Three words I'd swoon to hear, whispered by candlelight: "I want you." That's how it feels.]]> http://dollspride.com/Molly_Delaney/blog/how-does-it-feel/ Thu, 10 Nov 2011 04:03:55 +0000 Molly_Delaney http://dollspride.com/taniasissygirl/blog/a-supportive-wife-the-dream-for-most-of-us/ As you will see if you read my profile, I am very lucky in having a supportive wife, who encourages me to dress and mask and even helps me choose my o...
So I thought I’d write a blog. Sadly I’m not clever enough to know the real answer to Molly’s question, but I thought it might be helpful to explain the circumstances in which my wife found out about my dressing and how she then responded.

We had been married for about 25 years when she discovered my secret. Since we were married, my wife had always been prepared to wear PVC and latex for me and as we were similar sizes, I used to dress in secret when she was out. After many years my job involved lots of travelling and staying in hotels, which gave me a great opportunity to dress in my room, without fear of being discovered. This went on for several years and I was always careful on return home to take my luggage to the bedroom and put the clothing away quickly. One fateful day I was distracted and my wife opened my case – to help me unpack and she discovered bras, panties, suspender belts, stockings, catsuits etc.

I thought that she might think that I had another lady in my life, so I decided my only option was to confess all. She was very shocked and confused at first and thought that perhaps it was a threat to both her (wasn’t she pretty enough for me) and our marriage. After a couple of weeks contemplation – with plenty of explanatory discussion between us, she decided that it was a harmless pursuit and that as long as it was just between the 2 of us, then she could live with it. I didn’t want to dress too often – that would be taking liberties – but also new that she loathed ironing. So at first I asked if I could dress as a maid, if I did all the ironing for her. We both saw that as a win-win situation and it has developed from there. I still only dress 2 or 3 times a week and quite often when she is out. In this way my hobby/fetish doesn’t have too much of an impact on our vanilla life, which we both love. I feel I have the best of both worlds.

I’m not sure if this helps anyone with non-supportive wife, but I am sure that if dressing is in your blood/genes etc then you WON’T be able to give it up – not indefinitely anyway. I wonder if our wives knew that we do it as much because we need to (as well as want to), they could find a way to be more understanding and I wonder if we gurls with a partner who knows, should try and explain what drives us to dress.

I spent 25 years not daring to tell my wife, as I thought she might leave me, and I can understand anyone who is reluctant the try and engage their partner in such discussions. All I know if that I have a very special wife and I hope some of you can find similar support, tolerance and encouragement from your partners.

I hope I haven’t rambled on too long.

Tania]]> http://dollspride.com/taniasissygirl/blog/a-supportive-wife-the-dream-for-most-of-us/ Fri, 28 Oct 2011 10:19:31 +0000 taniasissygirl